Your story of pain may be similar to someone else’s but they are never truly the same. Therefore, your time to heal from whatever hurt was done to you will require your time.
The New Year brings so many traditional misconceptions about putting the past in the past where it belongs and all will automatically heal. Really??!! It doesn’t heal according to the turn of a clock that says it’s a New Year.
Although, we all know that forgiving takes a huge burden of negativity off of us and that’s great but it is still on your time because with forgiveness comes healing. Why? Well, when you truly forgive, you’ve healed or get it at that moment of forgiveness.
The reason you may think you haven’t healed is because when you surround or associate with negative toxic folks they bring up the past and stir your emotions. This is why it’s important to do inventory periodic checks on the people that are in and/or enter your life. They may not be there for a blessing.
After all, your most vulnerable state brings exploiters from all over and some as close as your own blood.
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God Bless, Emma